Faking orgasm

We all know that faking orgasm is like lying to your partner, and what are the consequences of such a lie?

Many women would secretly confess that they faked an orgasm at least once in their lives. In most cases they would say that they did it to boost their partner's self-esteem. One hand they feel sexier, claiming to reach the peak of pleasure, on the other hand they try to ensure their partner's efforts were not useless. And while some acting can be good enough to keep your romance look good at the surface, the lies and other problems may sooner or later appear as a result of faking orgasm.

The most common problem that one can face when faking orgasm is making your sex life more and more dissatisfied. First of all your partner won't learn what feels good to you and how he can improve the situation. Instead, he will be pleasing you in the wrong way, being convinced of his excellent performance. Without knowing your real feelings, he won't be able to make you feel better.

Doesn't mean that you should simply lie there and show him absolute indifference? The best way in this situation is to explain your partner what you really want. You may not say it with words by rather with your actions, guiding him with your hands and gestures. Try to be responsive and always encourage him when you really appreciate what he is doing.

Also you should not expect to experience orgasm every time you have sex. Sometimes you may simply have pleasure without acting the earth-shattering orgasm. You may tell your partner about the pleasure you had with him and he won't be bothered about dissatisfaction.

Learn to enjoy the happy moments with your partner and do not focus on orgasm. If it happens - it's just fine, if it doesn't and you likes sex it's fine too.

You are in charge for your pleasure and your partner helps you to have the unforgettable experience and if something goes wrong give him some clues, try something different to make it happen. Changes are good for any sexual relationships and as you both will be open to new sensations, your experience will be always fresh irrespective of the fact of having orgasm or not.